Dear friend,
Did you listen to the first issue of the covert hypnosis audio newsletter yet? If you didn't yet, go check your inbox as you've got mail...
If you have, I'd be more than glad to hear what your comments are. you can either write them in the comments field on this post or you can write it
here (my contact form).
As you heard, it is very important to first let yourself be persuasive and let yourself use covert hypnosis. Many times and again I've taught friends the techniques only to have them say to me they were either not feeling like they can use the techniques or that they felt they aren't allowed to do it somehow.
In the newsletter I have given you two exercises you can (and should) do daily for a couple of weeks. They are designed in a way that will get your subconscious mind to accept your new, more persuasive attitude and to give you positive feelings when you're using it.
It is also very important to view the persuasion process as a challenge and a fun experience. Don't get put off if some crazy little thing didn't work right at the first moment. You have to develop a mind set where you can always back off and try something else. There are many techniques available and not all work equally well on everybody.
Anyway, this mindset is the first thing we focus on an the first issue is mostly about that. Try to keep a good, confident posture when you walk outside from now on. Enjoy letting people know you are self confident and inn control of your every situation. People are magnetically drawn to such people. Just make sure you don't come off as arrogant. There's a great difference. I think you can tell who is what, can't you?
The problem with arrogant people is that not only they are disliked, they almost always irradiate quite the opposite of what they would like -- people view them as insecure and rude. So, there's nothing wrong with self confidence and letting people experience you as such. You don't have to (and shouldn't) tell it to them. You must non verbally communicate it to them. You can achieve it with your:
- body language
- voice tone
- facial expressions
- general behaviour
If you can manage to incorporate "power" in your nonverbal communication, you've won half the battle already. But remember -- it is important that all that comes from within. It can very rarely be acted out. But don't worry, all of this is trainable and you will get it as soon as you really start doing those exercises and finally accept that part of who you are.
One last secret: In case you were wondering -- nobody is more important than anybody else. You must realize that YOU if anybody is the most important person in the world. And only YOU can decide your future. Nobody else will.
Have a great time.
Till next time!
